someone irritating..

One question.. What type of person is irritating you? Or should I ask what type of person is most irritating you?

I have working in my current job for 2 months, knowing some new colleagues which are friendly and helpful.. been joining them for lunch almost every day and so far still getting quite well along.. there is a guy who is very popular in our floor because he is a super talkative and humorous, always make jokes around with others and making everyone laugh.. honestly at the beginning I am quite enjoy to chat and joke with him, but time passing.. I found that he is quite a busybody person, who likes to talk something bad about others behind, not really respect others especially to ladies, and almost everyone also he wants to command, not sure what he has commended about me behind. . haha!! Honestly he is quite irritating me now, although we all are still going lunch together but I will just listen to them and try to talk less and giving command..

Beside him, there is another colleague also having the same attitude like him who like to give nick names to others and like to talk something behind others .. in my work I have to duel with him quite often so I can’t ignore him, what I can do is just talk about works and less talking about others.. he is one of my lunch partner also..

Nowadays, I didn’t join them for lunch that often.. I have going out with other colleague in the same floor who never join us for lunch.. although they are not that talkative and joking but I feel comfortable with them and we can even chat something else beside talking bad and busybody of others..

I can’t say that I am not a busybody person but to me there is always a limitation, once crossed my border than I will feel irritating and even feel bad for myself.. there are lot of other thing to talk and discuss but not just talking about bad thing of other people..
It is good to have communication between colleagues but at is it is a more healthy one .. Bless!!